Rey Ignacio's Children of the Poor

by: Rufo-Tigs Tidalgo

It was about sundown and the scenery was exquisitely captivating. It was a windless hot summer day. A herd of carabao was grazing in the background and being framed against the fading glow of a dying day. It was typical rural Butuan.

I spent the whole morning with children. This was the time we implemented the Target A Child Initiative, a combined project of PRESAF and the Mindanao Association of Calgary. I met fifty children recipients and their parents early that day. It was organized chaos at first. But we sorted it out successfully and the outcome was a well-managed event.

I was a guest at a barrio seniors association after. They prepared a small party. I was with a group of friends. There was a crude banner welcoming us. I was impressed. We were about to enter the barangay senior's hall, when a group of children came. They held my hands and brought my wife and me to the chapel across the road. There was a fair sized group of children in catechism class in the kapilya. They made us sat on chairs they arranged. They danced and sang beautiful songs as they circled around us.

I watched closely their faces. They were excited, happy and giving all their eagerness and enthusiasm to their dance and songs. Their parents were poor barrio folks as reflected in their modest clothing. They however were neat, healthy and cheerful children.

In the midst of these, my mind wandered back to Rey Ignacio, the then president of the Mindanao Association in Calgary. He was from Zamboanga. We often talked about his desire to help the poor children of Mindanao. After months over numerous cups of coffee in our favorite shopping mall, we finally designed a project. We called it, Target a Child Initiative. He intended to put it into action through his club. After a series of meetings, it was approved for implementation. He was so excited. Unfortunately, he became ill and died before he could start building his dream.

I was privileged to deliver his eulogy. I promised him that his dream wouldn't die by his passing. That it would go on as he wanted it. I started selling the plan to Filipino associations. The Mindanao Association under the new leadership of Ernie Amante was willing to carry on the project. PRESAF was also interested to help work with fundraising and in the operation side.

I saw the actual content of Rey Ignacio's dream in the eyes of the poor children. Poverty bars their plight to a promising and productive future. Given a chance, these offspring of the impoverish ranks no less with other children anywhere. With a little assistance to cover their initial needs, they will over time be fruitful and useful citizens.

There is hope in the smile and laughter of a happy child. Target a Child Initiative is a mechanism to grant these children the brighter future which poverty culprits to deprive. They have the capacity and competence to build dreams. But leaving them alone amongst the abysmal helplessness of parents to provide, these healthy and supposedly hope of a bankrupt nation will just dwindle into nothingness to become insignificant statistic in a cruel and uncaring society.

I was sitting on a bench at Rizal Park fronting my hotel the next morning. I found myself being surrounded later by children of different ages. They extended open hands and begged for food. Decades ago, I just ignored this kind of situation. It was common sight with no solution anyway. It has been ongoing on for so long that no one cared anymore. I went on with my life in a dog eat dog kind of world where the clever and the courageous had better chances to prosper. The destitute and indigent people were just deemed as usual nuisances. I didn't have the compassion of Rey Ignacio and neither his vision. I helped him because it's hard to refuse an appeal from a good friend.

It's however far from saying that I had not shared an experience of being a homeless hungry little boy. On the contrary, I too with Oscar Durano begged food in restaurants in Cebu City when we were kids. We were stowaway from a copra-cargo ship, MV Carmen from Butuan and found ourselves aimlessly in the big city. We occasionally begged for leftovers at a restaurant at the corner of Colon and Pelaez Streets and sometimes at Bahug-Bahug Place nearby. There were times when owners of restaurants forcefully drove us out as our presence ruined the appetite of customers. We spent our nights with homeless vagabond children at the ruins of Fort San Pedro.

Back at Rizal Park, I welcome the young beggars with kindness. It was a trip down memory lane. I was dragged backward in time into the streets in Cebu City with my boyhood friend Oscar. It was really irksome to realize that more than half a century did come to pass, yet the condition of street children was not at all different. It remained perpetually the same.

The change however was in myself. I went home and grew up in a challenging world with an attitude to overcome challenges along my way. The lesson I learnt from being a vagrant child has been with me since. I valued it equally with the teaching and enlightenment from learning institutions. It always gave me a daring perspective that if things turn out differently, I would hardly go down lower than what it was in Cebu.

I absorbed in full the compassion of Rey Ignacio towards the children. It indeed was a wonderful and rewarding feeling. He could have been around when we implemented his project. I knew that he would compromise for Butuan instead of Zamboanga as planned. This was the day we always talked about at the shopping mall. His dream did come true. Although, I never had any inkling then that I would also shoulder the responsibility that goes with it.